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Apr/2008

Gaming and being a father...

I’ve been painting miniatures since 1985, I started by painting dungeons and dragons figures for a couple of games called Melee and Wizard by Steve Jackson. I had a complete collection of Barbarians, rogues, Wizards, and monsters, and they looked terrible but I had fun playing with those figures. I still own them today; I just pulled them out after finding a used copy of Heroquest at the local Salvation Army. I played GURPS, Warhammer 40K, Warhammer Fantasy, and many other games after those first fun years of playing D&D. Over the years I’ve built quite the collection of figures numbering in the thousands. This year I’m 45 years old, I have 3 children, but mostly I play games with my youngest Jarrett, he’s 12.


I’ve been divorced from his mother for the last few years and have since remarried. I get to see my son only once every two weeks, so I’ve taken it upon myself to teach him gaming in all the aspects that I loved over the years. I also have started to paint miniatures again; I built up a collection of models that I have put aside to paint at a “later date”, which seems to be now.



Jarrett and I have been playing a new game called Heroscape, a fun frolic, not as complete as a war game as let’s say fantasy battle or 40K, but a fun game to create any kind of scenario for what is called “out of time” battles. It’s also easy to bring other game systems into the fold of this game system, so Roman legionnaires can battle Space marines, and Zombies can battle Captain America and the League of Amazing heroes, as you can see tons of fun for a dad and his son. I’ve also become obsessed with collecting again, I love buying figures, I love painting them, and seeing them on the shelf. Sometimes I just walk in the room and look at all the figures and smile, admiring the work, and thinking of all the adventures my son and I will have fighting the battles of the future. I know in the future, my son will get too old to play with figures and his father and move on to adult things. So I’m holding on to this time to cherish for the future, when I am alone and have no other players to have fun with…

And maybe one day, my son will take all the worked I’ve done and play with his children, I can see him right now, holding up a Space marine and saying to his son… “My Father painted this…”

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04/19/2008 15:33:57
Being a gaming parent is rough. You want to share your love of the hobby and all the fun times it gave you with the kids but who knows if it's ever hwat they may want. There is also the eternal problem of finding time for it without taking away from them.

I am a father of two girls (4 and 8) and have found that each is accessible to my hobby in different ways. The oldest is wanting to play and sometimes gets to go to my weekly group with me or we play at home. The younger is more into helping me building and painting terrain and scenery for miniatures games. We sometimes find ways to work gaming-related content into other activities and it's not unusual for them to come home with rocks, stick or interesting bits they found that might make "something cool" for daddy's terrain.

Good to see otherp arents including their youngsters in their hobby.

-Eli


04/11/2008 12:48:18
Thanks everybody for all the comments!


04/09/2008 14:27:26

Rock on that's a good vision to have.

 



04/09/2008 01:37:19
Sounds awesome.  My son Joel loves Heroscape and I run a Star Wars game for him and his older brother.  Now that I've seen this thread, I guess I need to figure out a game for my daughter to play in as well.


04/09/2008 00:02:28

Great post. My youngest (of three) was 14, female, and no longer interested... She occasionally plays D&D with us, but thinks wargames are some deviant art form ;-). The oldest is 21 and his version of gaming and mine don't mesh - though he does game a lot. 

So what did the good Lord provide us? A new baby! My wife was classified as medically infertile, so we weren't watching, and one day BLAMMO!

Now I can game with my youngest son again in ten years or so... Perhaps the oldest will come over and join in. 

Don. 



04/08/2008 23:30:20
I'm right there with you, sans divorce. I've been painting since 1982, having started with the 2 Grenadier D&D boxed sets of adventurers and monsters. Another early purchase was Grenadiers Call of Cthulhu investigators set. I have 3 daughters and my oldest (20 this year) has found herself a gaming boyfriend. My two younger daughters both enjoy games, but haven't really started in seriously yet. My collection of figs also numbers in the thousands, and one of my dearest dreams is to have a room with curio shelves where I can display them all, museum fashion.


04/08/2008 19:22:05
Great post!

Gaming with your children is a wonderful thing. We play Heroscape, Classic BattleTech, D&D and others with our own son, who is 10. When the younger two get older, we'll game with them as well.

I think you should keep hope that your son won't outgrow gaming. Some people do, but some don't. If he sees his father gaming as an adult, he'll know it's ok, even if he doesn't choose to keep that hobby going in his own adult life.

Thanks for posting this!


04/08/2008 18:56:59
A great post and thank you for sharing it with us. *Salute*


04/08/2008 18:38:12

I think it is wonderful that you have found a great way to connect with your son while building a tradition and keep the art of gaming alive.  Thank you for sharing!!!




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