He said, she said is a "game" that happens when people forget how to communicate. I find it to be a very middle school kind of thing, but I somehow end up unwillingly "playing" every now and again. I suffer from G.I.S (good intention syndrome). I try and clarify, justify, or deny alligations made. The people involved throughout my life are generally good people, just pig headed, thick sculled or need a filter between their brain and mouth.
I know a lot of people who could use a filter. We're not talking about cursing here. I'm talking about saying things without thinking. Here is a case in point, which some of you have heard. (The accused, has been cremated and is sitting in a nice brass box in my office). After I had come home from having extensive surgery, removing all of my reproductive organs at the very young age of 25...being forced into a VERY premature menapausal state. My father looks at me and says "So how does it feel to be a shell of a woman?" FILTER NEEDED!! Words hurt. They hurt feeling, relationships, business standings, sense of community, reputations and can hurt sense of self.
So for all you people out there talking smack, passing smack, ma king up he said/she said smack STOP IT!
That doesn't mean you can't complain about someone, I complain ab out people, I have peeps that piss me off but I get over it a nd move on. Difference being, I'll also tell you to your face (probably a little nicer though
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Go to a dictionary and look up slander. I'm done
