Nine words women use...

1.) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are
right and you need to shut up.

2.) Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more
minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3.) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something,
and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing
usually end in fine.

4.) Go Ahead : This is a dare , not permission. Don’t Do It!

5.) Loud Sigh : This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement
often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an
idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing
with you about nothing. (Refer back to 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

6.) That’s Okay : This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman
can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard
before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7.) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say
you’re welcome.

8.) Whatever : Is a women’s way of saying F&%K YOU!

9.) Don’t worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning
this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but
is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ’What’s
wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to 3.

He said, she said is a "game" that happens when people forget how to communicate.  I find it to be a very middle school kind of thing, but I somehow end up unwillingly "playing" every now and again. I suffer from G.I.S (good intention syndrome). I try and clarify, justify, or deny alligations made. The people involved throughout my life are generally good people, just pig headed, thick sculled or need a filter between their brain and mouth.

I know a lot of people who could use a filter. We're not talking about cursing here. I'm talking about saying things without thinking. Here is a case in point, which some of you have heard. (The accused, has been cremated and is sitting in a nice brass box in my office). After I had come home from having extensive surgery, removing all of my reproductive organs at the very young age of 25...being forced into a VERY premature menapausal state.  My father looks at me and says "So how does it feel to be a shell of a woman?"  FILTER NEEDED!!  Words hurt. They hurt feeling, relationships, business standings, sense of community, reputations and can hurt sense of self. 

So for all you people out there talking smack, passing smack, ma king up he said/she said smack STOP IT! 

That doesn't mean you can't complain about someone, I complain ab out people, I have peeps that piss me off but I get over it a nd move on. Difference being, I'll also tell you to your face (probably a little nicer though)

Go to a dictionary and look up slander.  I'm done 

 

 

Have you ever felt like you just have to much crap?  Well, I'm there.  I decided late last year that this would be the year that things got cleaned out, trimmed, donated, and sold.  If we haven't been using it, then we don't need it.  Of course there are a very few exceptions... sentimental things.

If I want to clean out the stuff that I have, I obviously can' t purchase anything new. So this is also the year of not spending as much money. I could use new livingroom furniture, but it will have to wait until next year.

I was calling it "The Year of the Budha" but more acurately sho uld be called "The Year of Tao". 

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